New Year, for You
New year, new you? Nah. I know they say that the time of resolutions is here, and that next year we should be better, stronger, faster,...
Trusting the Wheel of Consent
While much consent work is black and white and is mostly about ‘no means no’, the Wheel of Consent (WoC) offers a brilliant way...
harvesting
I have a beautiful big apple tree right beside my front deck, and every time I pass it, I notice that the fruit is getting bigger and...
how I celebrated international women's day...or not
I didn’t celebrate international women’s day. Or rather, I didn’t actively celebrate. I read all my friends’ message on Facebook, I...
let it be dorky and hot
“Let it be dorky and hot.” My brain just cannot let go of these words shared by sex educator Felice Shays at the Playground 2018...
let’s all be self-ishly generous
Today, let’s be generous with ourselves, when we look in the mirror, when we fall down, when we make a mistake or a fool of ourselves....
cultivating erotic energy - our most powerful tool for personal growth
Life is energy. We are energy, and we were all born from sexual energy, that core of fire within that burns to have experiences, to...
pleasure = satisfaction = pleasure
Oh the pleasure of being satisfied and the satisfaction of experiencing pleasure. That feeling of being enough, so completely and...
practice, practice, practice
I send my clients home to practice the skills we’ve explored in session. “What can you do at home,” I ask them, “to support your...
these are not my mother's hot flashes
It starts with a whisper of heat at the back of my neck. Just a hint, and then the warmth builds swiftly, radiating across my shoulders,...
